Why Religious Guys Call Themselves "Porn Addicts" More Often
Religious men are likelier to call themselves porn addicts, even at the same level of use. What the research shows, what it doesn't, and what to do about it.
Read the post →How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex and Porn Without Shame
For porn- and sex-positive parents: how to talk to your kids about sex and porn with curiosity instead of shame, and what the research does and doesn't show.
Read the post →Bi, Gay, or Fluid? You're Not an "Addict." You're Leading Edge
Bi, gay and sexually fluid men get called "sex addicts." Here's the history, what the numbers show, and why shame is the likelier culprit.
Read the post →How to Talk to an Anti-Porn Partner Without a Fight
Your partner hates porn and every talk ends in a fight. Here's what's usually underneath that, and how to open the conversation without caving or attacking.
Read the post →Does Porn Cause Erectile Dysfunction? What Research Shows
Worried porn is wrecking your erections? Reviews of 50+ studies say no. Here's my own story, and what actually helped me.
Read the post →Am I a Porn Addict? Why That 1am Quiz Got It Wrong
Googled 'am I a porn addict' at 1am? Here's what the psychiatric manuals and the research say, plus a 2-question test to tell a habit from a problem.
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